I think the thing I say the most is probably “start where you are at, but just start”. I know a lot of times this is probably the hardest thing for me to do. I am a perfectionist and I want things to be perfect before I show them to anyone. I have learned (more so this year) that if you wait for perfection it will never happen.
I know that most people only want others to see the good side of things, life is perfect and all organized into nice little categories. We’ve all seen that Instagram person who looks like they have their life together and they never loose their shit, well I’m here to tell you that they do lose their shit, you just don’t see that part of them. That is their private part of life that no one sees outside of their happy little bubble.
If you wait for things to be perfect you will never do whatever it is that you want to do. So start right now, where you are, and show the world your messy side. It will get better, and you will figure out how to improve on things as you go. But if you start right now, you know that you tried, even if it doesn’t work out the way you want it to. I’ll tell you what, the ride will be fun though when you look back on it.
Just remember we are all human and we all have a messy side. Some more so than others but that’s alright. That’s what makes each person who they are. I want to see who you are, not what you think others want to see. So just start!
Have a great day!